🧠 Introducing: "The Opposite of Settling"

I’m so excited to announce my new book “The Opposite of Settling” is now available for pre-order! If I had to summarize the book in one sentence it would be this:

Build a life you love, and love will find you there.

Forget settling or "settling down.” You deserve a love that upgrades every part of your life, amplifies your happiness, and fills your days with more passion, spontaneity, and laughter than you ever thought possible.

Love should feel like both stability and possibility. I wrote The Opposite of Settling to help you stay wild, stay hopeful, and stay open to the kind of love that offers both.

It would mean A LOT to me if you pre-ordered the book here (you’ll get a HUGE bonus if you do).

- Case Kenny

1. Love is abundant when you live in alignment.

If you’re living half-truths, you’ll attract people who want half of you. If you’re living small, you’ll attract people who fit comfortably in small spaces. But if you’re living in alignment with yourself — chasing what lights you up, protecting your energy and refusing to dumb yourself down — you’ll filter out anyone who isn’t built for the life you're creating.

Build a life you love, and love will meet you there… because it’s the ultimate filter.

Build the career that lights you up. Book the flight that scares you. Create the art, the memories, the mornings you don’t need anyone else to make worthwhile. Build the life you can’t wait to wake up to — and trust that the kind of love you’re dreaming of will recognize you by the way you already love your own life first.

(you can pre-order The Opposite of Settling here)

2. Audacity…

I have a theory that life meets you at the level of your audacity. AKA the more audacity you have, the more you will be rewarded.

Audacity. Asking for what you want instead of hoping someone offers it to you. And not being subtle about it. Texting first without overanalyzing. Applying for jobs you feel “underqualified” for. Shooting your shot and introducing yourself to that person. 

It’s not the smartest or most talented people who get what they want in life, it’s the people who have the audacity to ask for more.

3. Seven mantras to inspire you to NEVER settle.

(aka… how to attract “the opposite of settling” in your life)

You weren’t built for casual. You were made for love so secure it echoes into your next life.

The theme for this chapter of life is overdue upgrades. I’m showing myself that all the waiting, healing, and hoping was worth it.

10/10 recommend putting yourself first for once and being a passionate little freak about your own happiness.

Save your heart for someone who makes you feel irreplaceable in a world full of distractions.

A secret to happiness is to love your spicy weirdo self so much that you become a magnet for people who match your frequency.

Life’s too short to be low maintenance. Love a lot, offer a lot, and expect a lot.

The purpose of a relationship is NOT to settle down. The right person inspires you to get MORE out of life. In every sense - emotional, physical, adventure, late nights, travel, music, art, culture, etc.

My name is Case. I believe in the power of perspective.

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