🧠 How to make miracles inevitable

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This is my twice-a-week free email with a couple short thoughts and reflections to help you be more optimistic in life. I hope you enjoy it 🙂 

Here’s a mantra guiding me right now: Someday when I’m old, I’ll look back and smile because I stayed passionate and weird, and that was the magnet that pulled my people to me.

Let’s get into it.

1. The power of reinvention

When you feel pulled to set fire to your old life and start over, that’s your soul remembering what it came here to do. That pull you feel is not madness. It’s your future self leading you forward.

It’s the plane ticket that erases the word “someday.” The haircut that feels like freedom. The new city where no one knows your name.

Give yourself permission to become an entirely new person and reintroduce yourself to the world. Reinventing yourself is the ultimate act of faith. It makes miracles inevitable.

Sometimes burning it down is the only way to see how much light you can actually make.

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2. Dating with anxiety

Dating with anxiety is normal. Having anxious thoughts doesn’t mean you’re broken, it means you care. Dating comes with so many unknowns, so of course your brain gets loud.

When you’re spiraling, stop asking, “Why am I like this?” Instead ask, “What would this look like if it were easy?”

• Waiting for a text? Easy looks like: they’re busy, they’ll reply when they can - or if they don’t, that silence is your clarity.

• Replaying a first date? Easy looks like: they either liked you for who you are, or they didn’t - and that saves you time.

• Getting ready for a date? Easy looks like: wear what makes you feel comfortable, show up as yourself, and let the night unfold.

• Lying awake at night? Easy looks like: if they stay, it’s because they want to. If they leave, it’s because they weren’t right for you.

• Unsure where things are headed? Easy looks like: if it’s healthy, you’ll both lean in without forcing. If it feels like constant decoding, it’s not right for now.

“Easy” doesn’t mean effortless. Love takes effort, but not struggle. The bottom line: anxiety won’t disappear, but you can shrink it. Keep asking, “What would this look like if it were easy?” It’s a compass that points you back to peace - and to love that actually fits.

(listen to this episode of my podcast here)

3. A simple reflection on love

This year taught me that your soulmate should empower you to be wild, free, AND in love. The right person fuels your fire, they don’t extinguish it.

*this is the premise of my new book The Opposite of Settling

This week’s podcast episodes

731 - Delusional, but in a good way What is audacity? I talk about a powerful new reframing that gives you energy to close the "imagination gap" in your life. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

732 - ONE question to stop anxious dating thoughts How to “uncomplicate” dating with one question. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

My name is Case. I believe in the power of perspective.

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