🧠 Be hard to get

10/10 recommend letting people lose you instead of begging them to choose you.

Here are three mindsets to help you know your worth.

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- Case Kenny (@case.kenny)

1. Be hard to get (don’t play hard to get)

Listen to today’s podcast where I talk about why playing hard to get is a zero sum game for insecure people, but why being hard to get is the strongest sign of your worth and your standards.

• Playing hard to get vs. being hard to get

• What does it mean to be “hard to impress?”

• Games vs. standards

Listen here.

2. This is the kind of love you deserve

You deserve a love where you both get hotter, happier, and wealthier together.

A relationship is about finding someone who’s all-in and meets you where you are. That’s someone who doesn’t just admire your light, they help you shine even brighter. It’s about joining forces with someone and filling your life with “can you believe we did that?” moments and laughter at inappropriate times, and where "let's book a flight and go" is as common as "I love you.”

3. Don’t forget how far you’ve come

No one knows the countless battles you fought alone to find so much peace within yourself.

The old you felt lost without a plus one to the party. The new you is the whole party. The old you would’ve settled for breadcrumbs. The new you wants the whole bakery. The old you wanted to be perfect. The new you celebrates the joy of being a beautiful mess. The old you was a whispered “maybe.” The new you is a shouted “yes.” Growth is beautiful.

Please don’t forget how far you’ve come. Never forget the strength it took to rebuild yourself after everything fell apart. Never forget how many times you’ve healed your own heart. Never forget how much darkness you’ve overcome to radiate so much light. You’ve fought relentlessly to become who you are today. This is the chapter where it all comes together.

My name is Case. I believe in the power of perspective.

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